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I'm Robyn Firtel and I'm a San Diego Relationship Expert & Licensed Psychotherapist

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Robyn's Professional Development

San Diego Psychotherapist Robyn Firtel is a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and is also a certified Parenting Expert. Robyn continued her education being trained by world renowned codependency pioneer Pia Mellody. She specializes in Post Induction Therapy, which treats codependency, addiction, trauma, and relationships. She is specialized in helping clients heal from generational trauma, mindsets, and unhealthy patterns and cycles of Love Addiction and Love Avoidance.


Robyn graduated with honors from University of California, Irvine with a Bachelor of Arts in Social Ecology. In addition her post graduate studies continued at the University of Humanistic Studies. She earned a Masters of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy in 1997. Furthermore she completed internships at several different facilities which enabled her to have a varied experience within the field. In addition Robyn has worked as a primary counselor doing intensive therapy with children, adults, and families. Robyn also worked with a team of psychiatrists and psychologists on long-term treatment planning. She has experience using Gestalt Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Family Systems, Rogerian Therapy, Satir Family System Therapy, and Posts Induction Therapy. She also does continuing education every two years.

Scripps McDonald Center

During her internship in 1997 at Scripps McDonald Center, a drug and alcohol inpatient treatment center, she worked with both adolescents and adults. In addition San Diego Psychotherapist Robyn Firtel took part in doing individual and group therapy sessions. Here she developed a children’s program for the children who have parents in recovery who had been affected by alcoholism and drug addiction. Furthermore she also participated in educational lectures, treatment planning, and family week events.

Transition Coordinator for Families

She worked for New Alternatives and County Mental Health as a Transition Coordinator. In addition Robyn assisted families in creating a support network for their adolescent returning home from an inpatient treatment center. Furthermore she was able to help each family receive wrap-around services. The goal  was to prevent their teen from relapsing once back in their home environment. During her time at this facility, Robyn earned the “Employee of the Year” award two years in a row. She began to see the miraculous healing when families overcome generational trauma.

Families & Individuals & Couples

Working with families and individuals since 2002, San Diego Psychotherapist Robyn Firtel soon realized how unconscious parenting was affecting children. In addition she became certified in a parenting class called “Redirecting Children’s Behavior” taught by Susie Walton. She also began to notice her adult clients were having symptoms that were a direct result of unconscious or conscious trauma that had occurred sometime between birth to age 18. 


Psychologists have known that people “get stuck” in developmental stages for years, but Robyn had yet to find a therapy model that was able to heal those deep wounds from childhood that can have a direct negative effect upon relationships. These developmental traumas were much more common in addicts and alcoholics. She trained under Pia Mellody and became certified in Post Induction Therapy which treats the roots of addiction and codependency. Being 22 years in recovery has given her a unique ability to help people recover and treat the root causes.


She began to realize that people who had relationship difficulties had similar roots and symptoms. All had five similar symptoms:

  • They had little to no self-esteem, often manifested in the carried shame of their primary caregivers;
  • They had severe boundary issues;
  • They were unsure of their own reality;
  • They were unable to identify their needs and wants;
  • They had difficulty with moderation.


Post Induction Therapy is a structured therapy with a beginning, middle, and end unlike conventional therapy which has education on emotional maturity. It has a format to help people have extraordinary relationships built on trust, love, and emotional maturity.. In addition this also has a component of experiential work to heal the person of childhood trauma that is getting in the way of true intimacy and connection. It has transformed many families and individuals.

Robyn's Private Practice

Robyn has over 23 years of working with individuals, groups, and couples in private practice. She also does individual and group intensives. Robyn has appeared on several television shows, podcasts, and radio shows, speaking about addiction and its effects on society. She is passionate about helping with root causes rather than symptom based therapy. Robyn has an online educational course on love addiction and codependency. The course is an 8 week video course and has homework for tools on how to recover from codependency. It is an educational tool as an adjunct to psychotherapy.


Robyns philosophy is to help clients create vision and purpose and see total transformation within themselves, their families and their communities and their relationships. She is a firm believer in overcoming and having a joyful and purposeful life. . Her favorite saying is “anything is possible if you have a relationship with yourself and God. 

Probably the best use of my money and time. We have three generations of family members that have seen Robyn, and it has literally changed us into a functional family. I learned how to communicate and how to listen. I learned some real boundaries and how to be helpful instead of hurtful. I can actually say that it was a life altering experience.

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